My question is, Is romance dead or maybe did it just never exist at all?
I recently went on a so-called "date" and we go to the park. It was a beautiful day, we have a picnic, walk around, talk. We have some really great conversation, and just when I'm starting to think this might turn into something, he asks "So, you wanna go to my place and make out?" *Now imagine the sound of soul crackling*
Wow. Is this all a guy can offer these days? Is chivalry totally dead? Will any guy in NYC actually bother to court me, or is it just"Hey you wanna go back to my place & screw?"? And if you decline, then they just go to the next girl to see if she will accept the offer. What ever happened to romance, spending quality time together....how bout really getting to know a person?
Anybody have any feedback on this?
3 comments:
wow. at least he was straightforward about it so now you know. better now than later, haha. could always be worse.
What did you talk about that made for great conversation? I'm not trying to be insensitive, most often when we get involved with others we tend to operate from the basis that we need something from the other person. This could be simply friendship or an ego boost. The problem is that we are often detached from own understanding of ourselves and may in fact lack self-love. We should first try to Romance ourselves before seeking it elsewhere.
Yea, I think that guy was just so immature! It's amazing how many guys I meet who seem to have a one track mind.
As far as great conversation, we talked about a bunch of stuff, mostly along the lines of building a friendship, which was why I was so shocked at the end when he reduced it all to just a plan to get laid. How sad!!
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